They’re confusing. That’s just it. And because they’re confused you think you’re confused and was making them an “ex” a BAD DECISION. But, that call is totally up to you (and me) the personto figure out if that’s just what it’s meant to be. Personally, I believe my ex’s (ha, the few I have) all took me for granted: with the exception of one. The reason I say one is because; he never battled me. We never really had heated moments or went on cycles of speaking then not speaking. We’ve always been on good terms. So why is that as “ex’s” we repeat the vicous love-hate relationship? Well in my opinion, we aren’t over them. It’s something that still compells our interest in the first place that really……never left. We want to know closure or we either want to become closer. The what ifs kill and the should’ve, could’ve, would’ves’ are deadly. Then you have the “ex’s” that want you back but just don’t admit it, which makes things 10x harder. Don’t beat around the bush, say what’s on your mind (never be scared). I wouldn’t say “an Ex is an Example of who you don’t want to be with” bs because to me it’s kinda redundant. What is an “ex” really an example of? Love, if you were in love. Lust, if lust. Hurt, if pain. Or even knowledge, if they helped you grow. But it’s up to you(and me) to decipher that. If I had to say anything to my “ex’s” it would just be a simple thank you. Thanks for making me realize my worth, my love, and most importantly myself. Reassurance is a key to success, even in relationships. Make sure that “ex” knows why he/she had to exit. Don’t be confused or don’t be a confuser. I mean hey, we’re all just someone’s “ex” right.
95% of all Tumblr users want to look at naked girls and naked girls want to be on tumblr, “exotic” girls who got there genes by mac, sneakers or shoes they can never have, clothes they’ll wear, food they’ll never eat, guys they’ll never date, or places they’ll never be. my opinion.